Writing – Poly Nirvana

~March~

So March is my anniversary month for the blog. I love my blog. I have gotten so much pleasure and satisfaction from it. I love that I have readers in Germany, and Canada, and dozens of other places. I love the comments and the commenters. Sometimes the stories spill from me in an instant, andContinue reading “~March~”

~Haiku for Middle Age~

Today I bought a butter dish, and thought Fuck me, I must have grown up.

The elusive orgasm of words.

I am trying to get something out into the universe, and it’s just. Right. There. It won’t come. I get close. There’s a tingle that starts to build. A beautiful, complete, sentence materializes, and I feel a small rush. I wait. But what comes next is a brittle collection of words that sends me backContinue reading “The elusive orgasm of words.”

~Reviewed~

In the middle of the summer, I was contacted with a offer of an advanced copy of a new book on polyamory, and a request to review it on my blog. The book has since been released, and at least once a week, my partner pokes me and says, “Hey, did you write your reviewContinue reading “~Reviewed~”

~Atlanta~

I’ll be in Georgia for the Atlanta Poly Weekend in June, and I’m so excited! I have heard wonderful things about this event, and I’m happy that my friend, the divine Miss M. will be flying down with me. If anyone within the sound of my voice is planning to attend, I want to know aboutContinue reading “~Atlanta~”

~Year~

One year ago today, I posted my first writing on Poly Nirvana, titled “Perfect Poly”. I actually had written it a year before that, out of frustration with the larger poly community and this feeling of not fitting in anywhere; of not being evolved enough to feel true compersion, or mature enough to not everContinue reading “~Year~”

~Daydream For A Succubus~ (BOAW3 )

This is absolutely NSFW. As I have gotten older, I have come to a place where I can reconcile my sexuality with my mainstream socialization that “nice girls don’t”. I was forty-two years old before I discovered the pleasure and beauty of my own sexuality. My sexy. My sex. My sexy is mine, andContinue reading “~Daydream For A Succubus~ (BOAW3 )”

~Reality~

I’ve been asked a few times if my little poly network knows that I blog about myself, about my relationships, and about them. I’ve been asked if it affects my writing, if my important people do read what I write. The answer is yes. They know. And yes, it affects what and how much IContinue reading “~Reality~”

~Grateful~

If you blog about poly, you are an activist. Some of you know this already. Some of you are thinking, “I’m just writing about my life. I’m not an activist. Why would anyone want to be an activist?” I don’t know if anyone wakes up one morning and decides to be an activist. I don’tContinue reading “~Grateful~”

~Listen~

“Stop inviting walls into wide open spaces.” I saw Buddy Wakefield a few years ago, in a tiny dive bar in downtown Boise. He was too large for the shabby venue, and there was so much awesome in his words that I’m sure the dozen or so people in the audience may have missed itContinue reading “~Listen~”